Love, Life and Me

When the relationship between two people gets stabilized, when you’re sure about each other and once that “struggle” part is over, there comes a time when   you get so engrossed in your daily chores that you actually forget to admire the beauty of the other person… the thing that differentiates that someone from others and the quality that made you fall in love with them! Honesty, beauty, innocence, simplicity, whatever it was that made your heart skip a beat! And then one fine day, while maybe watching a movie, or reading a book, some scene would remind you of a time in your life when you probably were “together” only in your dreams & not in reality.  When you had the time and will to see the beauty of the person. When you spent hours simply thinking about that person…and when probably nothing was so stable as today. When you were so much in love and when you used to ask God never to end the moment that you spent with them. The moment would make you smile,...

It is only in one moment that God tells us what he wants from us and what we should be doing in life. It can be about love, it can be work, life partner or even your inner soul.  His way of communicating his will to us is slightly different. He never makes decisions for us. He gives us choices and keeps all the options right in front of us, and then makes us feel really good about something that we cannot even comprehend having, ever! That’s when we have to make a choice and select one of the options. The choice determines and defines our future. At one moment, you’ll know that this is what you want and you want it from all your heart. Let the moment pass and the feeling will be gone. Then you’ll have a doubt whether that was your imagination or something that God had signaled? I believe God signals something for a short moment (maybe milliseconds) and the feeling that you get at that moment is strong enough to make you forget all the apprehensions and all the w...

He paced through the corridors of the hospital, finding his way in the crowds, crossing everyone and not once stopping to see the people around. He had been late, even today and for the first time ever, he was feeling really nervous. He had been thinking about this moment for the past few months and even though he had no role in the whole process, whenever he thought about it, there was a gut that formed somewhere on the inside and made him feel nauseous. He had imagined this moment hundreds of times and he had experienced a mixed feeling: happiness, love, expectation and excitement. But today was different. It was the day they had both waited for the past 9 months. His mind was all cluttered. There were a thousand thoughts running in his mind. At this point, all he wanted was to reach by her side. He wanted to be present there. He knew that she was going to bear all the pain, but he knew that if he is by her side, she'll feel protected. Besides, he wanted to be t...

All the status updates and reviews of Queen movie literally compelled me to watch the movie. So as I started with the movie, I told myself that by the end of it I’ll have something really good to remember. But I found the first few scenes to be very weird! We Indians are too bored with the usual boy-breaks-a-girl’s-heart thing! It’s quite usual in India, especially in the case of marriage, to see a girl crying over a boy! Well, we all know that wounds get healed with time and of course I expected the same to happen to her! I didn’t show much of interest in the movie and I found it quite disheartening that people had started loving this kind of story! I don’t remember what interested me most, but I kept glued to the Laptop throughout the movie. I kind of started liking the way it had been represented. The girl, the simple , sanskari Indian girl was learning to live! Not a single thing shown in the movie is unreal! Rani, the protagonist, cries remembering that he was there t...

You have the power to create a life.. You have the power to nurture it.. Your intuition is stronger than any fact.. N your strength has no limits to set.. You are hard as a rock for those who hurt you.. N you’re soft as a feather for those who you love.. You have the capacity to lead, You have the strength to fight all odds, You have the power to change the world.. Your one smile can take millions of hearts away.. N your love can transform someone’s world.. You are beautiful, courageous, unique and precious. You are a gift of God. Value yourself. Celebrate your existence. For once, think only about yourself! Happy Women’s Day

You are  a born angel You play with your dolls You wear cute dresses And you admire your dad You grow up to be a princess And you seek your prince charming You give him all your love And you expect only his loyalty You marry him And you switch your family You call them your mom n dad And they are still your In-laws You give them your care And you expect only their support You have kids And you give them your everything You bear all the pain And you smile when you see his tiny little face You make them your world And expect nothing at all! You grow old And you’re content with your life You feel happy that you’ve got everything When in reality, you forgot that there is a soul within you too! You’re the real face of God. You are an angel, a princess and a queen. You are a women! Value yourself. You are unique. You are precious. And you are someone’s world! Love yourself. And don’t ever think that you are weak. All t...

“Forever is the love that is filled with understanding   Forever is the love that is true and undemanding   Forever is the love that can stand the test of time   Forever I am yours, say forever you'll be mine” Finding your soul mate in this big and crowded world is a matter of pure luck and well, sometimes it takes years to find that one person who’s been made for you! So if you’ve finally found that special someone and you want to express your love to him/her, which day can be better than a Valentine’s Day: The day of love? We’ve listed out five different ways in which you can say those two beautiful words, “Be Mine”.  Here goes our list: 1)    Write a romantic poem or borrow lyrics of some romantic poem (there are thousands of it on the internet, pick a suitable one!) and read it out to him/her. Look into his/her eyes and tell him/her how much he/she means to you. We can assure you th at his/her heart will sink on hearing everything and...

It was the first time she was going to meet someone. Her parents, friends, relatives were all very excited. She had gone to her uncle’s place where they were going to come. Her mom woke her up that morning. Her father greeted her lovingly. Aunt and Uncle smiled when they saw her. Both the brothers were busy in arranging gift packets and fruits on the tray. Her sister had got that beautiful maroon dress ironed for her. Grandparents gave their blessings and she felt very special that day. Everyone was happy. She quickly took a bath and put on that anarkali salwar kameez. Then some kajal, mascara, compact and a lip gloss. She wanted to keep it simple and original. She looked at herself in the mirror and felt good. Half dried hair, little makeup, typical Indian salwar suit with dupatta and her smile! So good! She felt happy and content. How girls sometimes fall in love with themselves! Her happiness was no because she was going to meet that person, who, if destiny allowed, wou...

"The true taste of success is experienced only by those who have failed a lot of times" The best architect of the world, our creator, the one who designed this universe and humans surely must have thought a lot before making mankind. How else can someone make something so damn perfect!  Life, i think, is a well thought and creatively designed model whose creator paid attention to every single detail and designed a well planned masterpiece. To prove this, lets take this example: Don't you sometimes feel that life is being unfair to you, when wrong things keep happening. Firstly, you blame the people around you, then you blame the surrounding and when there is no one to blame, you finally blame God or your destiny.  Then someday, things suddenly turn good, that too at the time when you had never expected. Then, as if it was all an unsolved puzzle, things start making sense to you and you realized that everything happened for a reason. The time that pass...

In today's fast paced life, all of us are moving too fast. Some after goals, some after money and the rest after other people! What everyone is missing is the life that they have. The life that is static and calm, forever.  Today, when we have the answer to almost all questions of life, when comfort has become cheaper and when we are almost done with all the questions about our origination & our life, we have now started to learn about life on other planets too. Our daily schedule is fixed. We wake up with a goal in mind, we have our regular coffees, then we go to our offices, with the thought of doing more work, learning something new and then we come home, change and again go out with friends (coz of course we need to release all the stress of work), we come home tired, late at night and go to bed. In this highly busy and fast schedule, we manage our relation with friends, lover, relatives (though their existence has almost become zero today), neighbors and those hi-by...