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Indian Society and Marriage

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Born and brought up in an Indian family certainly means that your marriage will be celebrated in a huge & big-fat manner. All your relatives, your friends, family members keep waiting for that special day to come. It is a very grand event, a life changing one, and a time when you can see happiness on the everyone's faces, where all your family members, relatives and friends are there at the same place and everyone is enjoying. Now lets talk about the other things that are involved with this thing called “marriage”. The accounting and financing part. Well, if you're lucky enough to be a boy, you can surely enjoy everything, right from the start. You value(Selling Price) goes on increasing with every other degree that you get. Nobody cares when you're coming home, when you're going out, what you're wearing and what your complexion is! But if you're a girl, then surely your parents would have saved a large part of their monthly income (ever since you w...

The Un-Engineered Lot

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The youth of India, who are from Science background can be divided into two categories- those who have become Engineers and those who are from science background but could not take up Engineering in graduation. The number of people who became engineers is apparently more than those who could not become engineer. Now, say there are 100 engineers, everybody knows that 50% of them (if working) are in IT industry, irrespective of the branch they are from and rest, are unemployed! When i'm saying this, I don't mean to disrespect anyone. I personally feel that the world is doing this, earning, but not doing what they want to do. Managers are there who wanted always wanted to become dancers,  people who have degree in mass comm had wanted to become pilots, lawyers wanted to become singer etc etc.. The people who are working in IT industry, as software developers, software testing engineers, say that their only regret in life is that they took up engineering. N this is something...

Nothing to say

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When she saw that she had started falling for him..she convinced her heart that very soon find a reason that will make it hate him..once & forever..and then it'll all end.. But before she could realize, she had completely fallen for him..and still hadn't found a single thing to hate in him..! It was then..that she had to teach herself how to be with him all day and still hold back everything that she felt for him!

Just a thought!

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There are some things in life over which you have no control at all..even if you are the only one involved in it. Maybe its better to just go with the flow..wherever life takes you.. But then u're tensed..what if things become worse in the future?? What if your decision gives you a lifetime of pain?? You don't want to have any regrets in the future?? But what to do..you are in a lot of dilemma. There is force pulling u to its side continuously..and then there are your own principles.. But that force is becoming stronger day by day. You just don't know what to do! You keep thinking..you're trying to be yourself..but feel you're no longer the same person. Your thoughts unknowingly get distracted and then you find yourself thinking of him.. Oh! But how? N why? Why doesn't your heart realize that all these pleasure..the happy days..all this is not meant for u. You're being trapped..bu a strong pull..u know it..u don't want it...but you're not ab...

Driving a Car!

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Owning a car is not the thing of rich people now..with the market selling economy cars like Nano and Alto..everyone can afford to buy a car..! That is why..a car is found everywhere these days..in the local market, outside the grocery, in front of the parlor, everywhere..n that is one of the reasons why more and more people want to own a car.. But then..is driving really that simple a task?? Maybe it was..say 10-15 years back! Because at that time..vehicles like auto-rickshaws and buses were called traffic. Now you can the 5 cars of same color and creed on one single lane of the road. Just imagine..driving in that traffic..when you've started driving a car recently.. The theory about clutch, break and accelerator..n then the bloody gears..indicators..oh! There is so much to remember..how can anyone understand, learn and implement everything all at once!! That too on the roads that are always busy..! The horror in the face of a new driver can be sensed very easily. Try ste...

Women

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She'll give you all that she has..she'll change herself and become what you want her to be..she used to love someone else..but now that she is married to you, she'll be a good wife even if it takes all her courage to even look at you..she'll try her level best to make you happy. Loyalty runs in the veins of every girl..so don't accuse her of being disloyal..because whatever it was..it was at the time when you were not in her life. Don't forget the fact that ever since she is with you..she has given more importance to your family than her own.. Women are never disloyal..If she is not being good to you..its probably because you're not keeping her happy. She wont ever expect much..she will believe you when you say you were busy..even when she knows you were not..She'll keep waiting for one message from you all day long..she'll pray for your promotion even when her own career is not stable..she'll treat your parents as her own..even if they are no...